During an evening of girling with my women friends, a discussion of “incels” began. I was stunned by the concept of young men being involuntarily celibate and blaming women with on-line hate speech and acts of violence.
It was chilling news but because we were mostly single gals over 60-years-old and a little drunk, we chuckled a bit because we share one trait with the group – involuntary celibacy. Or maybe it was voluntary since each of us voluntarily left our marriages. And then we shook our heads – such hoopla over sex could be calmed so easily.
The sexiest thing any man can do for a woman is to be kind. Outside the bedroom.
To dogs. To children. To thoughtless drivers. To every shop clerk. And mostly to their spouse or girlfriend. Even when they’re hungry and tired.
Kindness is the ultimate aphrodisiac.
It was chilling news but because we were mostly single gals over 60-years-old and a little drunk, we chuckled a bit because we share one trait with the group – involuntary celibacy. Or maybe it was voluntary since each of us voluntarily left our marriages. And then we shook our heads – such hoopla over sex could be calmed so easily.
The sexiest thing any man can do for a woman is to be kind. Outside the bedroom.
To dogs. To children. To thoughtless drivers. To every shop clerk. And mostly to their spouse or girlfriend. Even when they’re hungry and tired.
Kindness is the ultimate aphrodisiac.
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